All it takes is a little Grace

We all need some grace in our lives. Grace to breathe, to rest, to live more fulfilling

lives. Grace for our bodies, minds, and spirits. Grace is something not easily given or received,

but of great importance. Beloved Haven recognizes that the women we serve deserve grace

more than most, but they rarely, if ever, receive it.

The GRACE (Guided Restoration And Collaborative Empowerment) program is designed

to extend support, love and compassion to women in what is sometimes their lowest point and

time of biggest need. Our partnership started with the Albemarle District Jail in 2021. As we

recognized that the majority of survivors of trafficking and exploitation are incarcerated at least

once, but more often multiple times, in their lives; we saw the importance of intervention.

GRACE is designed to help those who have been exploited identify as needing support

and services. While incarcerated, these women often go unnoticed, or worse, labelled as

undeserving. The main issue is not “undeserving”, but under-serving. While being trafficked,

these women are often introduced to a life of criminality that occurs to ensure their survival.

The program’s purpose is not only to provide direct services for those affected by trafficking,

but as a gathering point for all the women who need a shoulder, an ear, or a voice. GRACE

facilitators and volunteer team are providing information that helps build a plan upon release.

Along with human trafficking information for clients to be able to recognize their victimization,

GRACE explores the connection between addiction and trauma, healthy relationships, goal

setting, journaling, and devotionals.

These topics have proven to be priceless discussions for the women. The time spent

with the GRACE team is filled with personal stories, tears, and laughter. Some feedback given

over the last two years has solidified our need for this program:

“I always look forward to y’all coming in here.”

“You really care about us.”

“I tried that meditation you talked about and it really helped me calm down.”

“I’ve heard about you ladies, so I couldn’t wait to talk to you.”

Incarceration can make people feel unworthy, unloved, undeserving, lost and alone. In

that state of mind, it is hard to work toward change. By providing GRACE, Beloved Haven

provides hope for new beginnings. We see these women not for who they appear to be, but

who they can become. By understanding trauma and the long-term effects of trafficking, we

can offer compassion in this situation. Sometimes, all it takes is a little GRACE.